Often people indulging in their ass are great entertainers. It is explainable. At the back entrance there are a lot of nerve endings, and everyone gives such fantastic sensations, light pain, with pleasure, that you want to repeat these sensations. Some stop on small traffic jams, fingers or even live members, rubbing in the ass. Some go further. They want where the buzz even more. It is specific, but it is an unreal high and even psychological relief. Welcome to the world of anal fisting. Come on in, you have a night of big holes and fantastic pleasures. Here are tips for real anal fisting by keeping the butt plug in place with harness. Buzzfeed provides facts about BDSM.
Psychological picture
Why do people do it? Why do they sometimes want to embed something large, something that clearly exceeds the natural dimensions of the hole, which, moreover, is not intended to enter?
This is something psychological. In addition to the feeling of shocking fullness (yes, there are painful notes, especially at first), fisting gives one very interesting feeling: a sense of submission and humiliation.
After all, a hand or a large object in the ass is a rather demeaning situation. This is something from the world of BDSM, more often – a psychological plan. Plus fun, of course, too. To many, this kind of sex seems extremely specific (here we agree) and even shocking. And they will never reach him. But some, having tried anal penetration once, will want to find out what’s next, and will not be able to give up this pleasure – before that it is bright and delivers powerful sensations.
We talked about large objects there.
Yes, the word “fisting” itself came from “fist”, but in a broad sense, something that can replace a fist can also refer to the concept of “fisting” for example, large toys. Not everyone is able to get a living hand.
Since sticking large objects into your ass is quite an intimate game, and even a specific one, not everyone is eager to look for a partner for her, but prefer to have fun alone and perhaps worth telling how this is all done and with a partner, and without.
Anal fisting: 5 rules
- His first fisting rule is to wash your hands.
- Joking Hands – this is then. And the first rule – do not rush. And even if in fantasy it seems, how sweetly you are sticking a strong fist – it will not work out right away. No Torn pop.
Therefore, gradualness is very important. We start small, stretch the hole, get used to the sensations, and then move on.
The second rule is cleanliness.
Yes, ass – such a place with which surprises are possible, therefore, firstly, do not engage in such games with those who are squeamish (he does not appreciate), and secondly, in any case, you should prepare as well as possible for this kind sex
- Simply put – you need to make a good enema.
- It is quite simple and intuitive, so the mechanism will not be explained.
- And it is better to take an enema from a sex shop.
They look much more aesthetic than unsightly medical enemas, one type of which leads to despondency.
Special anal douche – in itself is already sex and fetish.
It is aesthetic, such or such a shower can even be given to a partner, and then an enema can become part of the sex prelude before fisting if there is a partner. But even one on one with such special enemas is very pleasant to use.
Secondly, another anal shower can act as an additional stimulant for relaxation – it is not for nothing that the tips of many models do not thin, but slightly thickened, plus sometimes small stimulants are added at the tips, like here or here. In a word, an enema is needed, and absolutely necessary.
Rule three. Stock up with grease.
But now we are moving on to the very important. Without lubrication about fisting, especially anal, you can forget! No, saliva does not fit. Neither children’s cream will not work (it is no good, it is absorbed instantly), or petroleum jelly (you will get tired after washing, and indeed the old-fashioned way).
Lubrication and lubrication only!
If so far everything has stopped on the fingers, you can take any anal lubricant. If only slid, and slid all. Silicone anal lubricants slide a little longer (they are not rubbed), but they cannot be used with plugs made of silicone and many materials, and should be rinsed with soap and water.
Water-based anal lubricants are suitable for everything: for fingers and for any toys, they are easily washed off with water, but they are absorbed faster, therefore such lubrication will be needed for fisting-entertainment a lot, not a couple of drops – exactly.
Special lubricants for fisting
Several points distinguish them from ordinary lubricants. First, they often have a fairly large amount – because you need a lot of lubrication. It is in this category you can find half-liter and even liter cans of lubricant. Secondly, often these cans are made with wide necks, so that it is convenient to scoop the grease with your hand.
And in the third – they have elevated sliding bases.
It is in this category of lubricants that the most famous fisting lubricant is found: Oil . The most true labor option.
What slips best and most economically? Butter! Oil-based lubricants have a thick consistency and are ideal for the most serious and even hard anal penetrations. But alas, you cannot use them with sex toys, only on your hands.
Rule Four. Stock up on paraphernalia.
No, this is not about sex toys. We still will reach them. Attributes – this is what makes the impression brighter. Atmosphere is important. Everything becomes much more psychologically sharper when your ass is stretched on a black vinyl sheet (for example, such or such), and not on your grandmother’s shaggy bedspread.
In addition, it is convenient. Fisting involves river lubrication, and vinyl sheets help keep the bed dirty. Everything feels brighter when not just fingers or not just a hand, but gloved hands penetrate you.
Moreover, it can be just a vinyl glove (very convenient, it is not necessary to wash the grease for a long time), and the bdsm glove is up to the elbow (yes, some very talented guys can do that). And by the way, there is another option – a special fisting glove with stimulants on each finger.
Fifth rule: no, you just cannot explain.
Fisting starts with fingers with neat fingers penetrating the hole. If at first there is a tightness and sickness, you can take a relaxing spray or even an anesthetic lubricant.
In the rest – it can be both fingers of the partner, and own. A partner should start from one, gradually adding others. After some workout, your fingers will enter easily, but you don’t need to hurry.
If there is no partner and it’s your own fingers, the main thing is to take a comfortable position and start playing with yourself, too, starting with one finger. In solo fisting there are some advantages -you can always control all your feelings and synchronize movements with them: you know exactly when to stop and when to add another finger. Tips in stretching your anus are found at https://loveplugs.co/blogs/news/how-to-stretch-your-anus-with-anal-toys.